"If your kid came to you on fire, would you say, 'I'm so glad you trusted me to tell me you're on fire, but if I put out the fire, that's going to really hurt, and you're going to end up with scabs anyway, so I'm just going to love you where you are right now?' No, you throw them on the ground, and you start rolling them, you get a blanket, and you start hitting the flames."