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"They will always see you as the perfect person. They will always preserve you in their mind, and no one else will ever measure up to you."
"Nostalgia for those good old days can creep into our mind while watching the show, even though those good old days never really existed."
"I'm sorry if I sound a little harsh, but I don't know how to get through to you because you don't seem to know that you are everything a girl could dream of."
"She was too good, too gentle, and fair to dwell in this cold world of care."
"If you feel like somebody in your life is that perfect and that you feel like they're a mirror for everything you need, you should be very cautious with that."
"On paper, the Sisters of Silence seem like the perfect woman: unshakably loyal, fit, and doesn't speak. But the reality is, there are no perfect women out there."
"California is a perfect place, a true golden state."
"Something about how there are no heroes, just disappointments and disappointments to be so be careful what, or who, you idolize and remember that holds true for more than just video games."
"It's a perfect Sunday morning in the best town ever in the world."
"You don't want to be in love. You want to be in love in a movie!"
"This baby right here can never do no wrong, can do no harm, is like the best human that ever graced the face of the earth. Nobody believes it but me, but it is."
"He was astonishingly good looking...he looked what he was, a young Greek god."
"We love Jeff." "No we don't." "We're just in love with the idea of being loved."
"That place... is paradise. That's paradise right there."
"Admiration involves a certain idealization and it means that there is a sense of otherness. She's different, she's other, she's her own thing. And in this space between her and you lies the erotic élan."
"We often view classical civilization with rose-colored glasses today in our study of history."
"You're my dream girl. You make the stars shine."
"I felt Nora worked better as the woman in the ice eternally beautiful, much desired but never attainable."
"If I could sit with God and he asked me to create the perfect woman I couldn't have even created you because I wouldn't have dreamed you I would get help right."
"You are everything I ever wished for, dreamed for, hoped for."
"I just want to see how authentic he is because he really truly is like the perfect person."
"Paris is a dream in the sense that it's everything you could wish for."
"He's the boss and he's the best boss you could ever dream for because he loves you more than you could possibly imagine."
"There's a fantasy there in social media; it's like everyone's best version of themselves."
"Try to not idealize chaos or make nostalgic something that was really painful because it invites more of those cycles in."
"There's no need to idealize work and the figure of the worker, no need to idealize our productive capacity. We need to ensure the movement doesn't reproduce ableism in the new society that we all want to build now."
"People actually kind of see you as like their ideal. You tend to attract people who are very focused on their work."
"They love you, they recognize you as this holy grail."
"In life, the Emperor was the perfection of mankind, a manifestation of the ultimate potential of his species."
"Regina knows that her nearly flawless execution of her culture's beauty standard earns her a reputation as the ideal girl and thus gives her power over her peers."
"You really have been like a dream come true for this person."
"It's a toxic and destructive idea that there's going to be someone who will come along and you'll just have an effortlessly good relationship."
"This person desires you, they feel like you're perfect but they just weren't ready."
"Both of you held on to some idealization and unrealistic expectations."
"This person sees you as innocent, perfect, like their soulmate."
"They do see you as their one, the most perfect."
"They see you as their happily ever after, their ten of cups."
"Life was fresh bread with country butter and Alpine honey."
"She was hailed as the perfect girl for the world's most eligible bachelor."
"You're that dream mate, you're their dream fulfillment."
"They realize now that you are their perfect person."
"Like this is like the fucking sweetest place on earth."
"I mean, this was a picture-perfect couple. They drove Aston Martins, they would wake up in their multi-million dollar estates."
"There's still this sense of confusion here, but this person sees you as an ideal partner."
"Let's build a perfect receiver: hands like OBJ, speed like Tyreek Hill, route running like Stefon Diggs, blocking like DK Metcalf."
"Let's recognize the sacrifices that some of these folks made, the limitations that they faced, but let's not ever try to view suffering and abuse through an idealized lens."
"She represents an ideal... the living embodiment of that cute little anime character."
"My ideal man it'd probably be an exact blueprint of my favorite anime crush."
"It's like everything is a dream. It's what everybody envisions when they wish to be a superstar."
"He's declared a god amongst men. You're goddamn right."
"They feel immense pleasure and bliss with you, they're in heaven with you."
"They see you as an ideal partner, and they overall just like how things are going with you."
"The outpouring of support has been incredible."
"They sort of build you up you're their ultimate fantasy."
"So you guys are like these eternal level lovers."
"They see you as a wish fulfillment though they feel like you are like heaven sent."
"Escape to a dream version of Brazil where the sun is always shining, the air is warm, the water is nice, the drinks are good, and there's always bossa nova music in the air."
"She was the best version of everything you can imagine she was the sweetest kindest person."
"You are the love of their life, they fantasize about you."
"Dear future wifey, you're just perfect for me."
"Your person puts you up on a pedestal, you're their queen/king."
"This person feels like you are their dream come true."
"My perfect Gotham would be that 1970s New York."
"Every Cherry boy needs a nice big Cherry girl in his life."
"This person is an amazing lover, they know it all."
"Bond represented the best of excellence - very, very smart, glamorous, bespoke tailored suits, drove the best cars, drank the best wine."
"In this completely simulated thing between us, everything is exactly the way that it should be."
"The people you idealize and put on a pedestal, that's not who they really are. You fall in love with the potential, not with the person."
"That woman is a martyr. That woman is a hero."
"Miss Sonia, the 100% pure princess who lives in a 100% pure castle."
"What feels like it's about the other person is usually more about the ideal that we had."
"You're very attractive to them and they kind of can't get you out of their head, you know? They just kind of play in their imagination as like this ideal partner."
"He's too pure for this world fans praise Keanu Reeves and brand him a gift from God."
"This is the perfect fall romance, perfect addiction."
"They know you're destined for happiness, fortune, stability, all the great things."
"When they're in love, they truly see this person as beautiful, amazing, like they can do no wrong."
"Absolutely love this. I've always wanted a girl like her because I don't know what it is and I've had this all my life."
"This person thinks you are the pinnacle of attraction. They think about your body, your face, your personality, your everything. They envision what it would be like to have a full-fledged family with you."
"I have found someone who I've worked so hard to like think of a dream of in my head God like you are just like this perfect person and I cannot wait to meet you and touch you."
"Less is more. Try to learn to keep your relationship private. They set themselves up to be the perfect couple."
"I don't think people should idolize other people."
"Mr Beast is the greatest YouTuber to ever exist. He has dedicated his life to helping people and he is perfect in every way."
"Narcissistic abuse is self-punitive, in the sense that the narcissist seeks to punish himself via the agency of his intimate partner."
"They see you as a goddess, as literally Aphrodite, as literally the empress."
"This person actually sees you as a dream come true."
"Don't idealize them, don't see them as your Manic Pixie dream girl or guy."
"Every INFJ description is like, 'oh the most insightful person, the most empathetic person ever.' Well, they're also fucking human."
"Donald Trump is our savior in this country, there's no one else who can make us whole and great again."
"You are their perfect 10; they see you as their everything."
"They see you as their ideal, their wish fulfillment, their dream come true."
"They couldn't have dreamed of a better person than you for them."
"It's not that you found a country, it's that you found a paradise."
"He's too perfect. There has to be something wrong with him."
"The person you're attracting in April sees you as their dream girl or guy."
"Serial idealizers construct a one-sided fantastic narrative."
"Nostalgia is fascism because fascism is glorifying and idealized past that never existed."
"A caution against romanticizing the past you dream about."
"They see you as their perfect match and their ultimate happiness."
"This smells like heaven, I mean I never been to heaven but I imagine it would smell like this."
"They just want to give you a new start in life... they see the truth of you is like someone extremely beautiful and talented."
"He was thought of as perfect right before his death."
"Jackie became a saint. She could do no wrong. There was such an innocence to America then."
"Clean history matters because it tells the story of how the project should have happened."
"They feel like you're straight out of their fantasies."
"The spec is the stuff of sticky teenage dreams."
"Idealization means divorcing reality; when you idealize someone, it means you."
"It proves that all of these people that we put on pedestals from a relationship perspective are simply human."
"Reflect more often. You gotta... idealize what is my ideal day."
"We all want to glamorize our lives, and I think in the age of social media we do that more than anything else."
"They see you with the eyes of beauty and think everything about you is perfect."
"There's romance in the air, they see you as just right."
"A dream come true, a person close to your fantasies."
"Vermeer's focus is on the maid as an 'ideal woman', a paragon of homely virtue."
"You're like their ideal woman, or their ideal man."
"That's the best thing I could ever imagine because it's you."
"This person sees you as some kind of angel or Savior."
"They feel like you're everything they didn't even know they were wishing for."
"You're waiting for this person, you're very passionate, you see them as the one."
"I put you on a pedestal, babe, and I really do feel like you're it.com."
"I think he's absolute Chad, he is perfect in every single way."
"They think you have a perfect body, mind, heart, and soul."
"When a person falls in love, they often become weaker, more vulnerable, and prone to idealizing the object of their affection."
"I'm in love with this beautiful specimen of a woman but we, I mean she's everything that you could ask for in a woman."
"In your eyes, you see them as the best human possible."
"They see you as too good for them, they have you on a pedestal."
"It's like the Golden Era of Hollywood but not actually the golden era of Hollywood — the idealized version of the golden age of Hollywood."
"You are so perfect, I've never imagined so much perfection."
"I've been blessed in some way because this person is exactly what I've been dreaming of."
"If she left, who could fill her spot? And there's a nobody there, right? So because of that, she's already categorized as my dream girl."
"They can idealize you and then later on minimize you."
"Love is blind, love will make you see things not as they are, but as you want them to be."
"She was what every man would want in a woman."
"You guys are literally dream girl, dream guy energy."
"You guys will be the king of cups and put someone on a pedestal if they really do give you what you want."
"I think of how strongly I connect with Peter Capaldi and how much he is really my platonic ideal of the doctor."
"This person literally puts you on a pedestal."
"Stiffler's mom is held up as like the Pinnacle of Womanhood of like this unattainable goddess with whom any man would be lucky to lay."
"It's a moth to a flame with the love bombing because it's so bright and it's so pretty and it's so perfect."
"They see you as a soul mate. They've definitely got you up on the pedestal."
"Maybe their relationship is idealized, but we felt it still deserved a spot in the Healthy tier."
"This is like how a romance should be done."
"You are everything they've ever dreamed of."
"Tyler embodies all the things the narrator wishes he could be: confident, assertive, charismatic."
"The aesthetic was an idealized version of how life was in this time I would venture to say that most people look back at this aesthetic and the time it took place with a smile."
"Divine Smite... just the stuff that dreams are made of."
"It's the idealized vision of the X-Men that I think of."
"From the moment a narcissist identifies a potential intimate partner, they create a mental snapshot, an idealized perfect version of that person."
"The JK and the JKU were absolute poster children for this."
"You are like their dream person. You're their dream partner."
"They fantasize about someone who reads, who educates themselves, who is always looking for the next, always exploring and taking those risks and leaving those doors open."
"A lot of things about the Attitude Era that people like to romanticize."
"Your dream version of a person is you at your best potential."
"Once it was that, it seemed like it was perfect."
"They could actually put you on a pedestal."
"Barbie is the perfect woman. Barbie lives in the perfect place. She lives in Barbie land."
"Individuals with borderline personality disorder often have intense and unstable interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation."
"She thought her the model of all excellence."
"They see you through that lens of romance."
"Instead of building a happy life, you build an imaginary version of another person in your mind. You fall in love with their potential, usually overlooking serious shortcomings."
"What we do is we get this one person, we put them on a pedestal and we tell ourselves a story that this is the only thing that we need to make work and we need to make it work."
"Your brain all of a sudden will start to glamorize this person. It'll start exaggerating positive traits and diminishing negative traits."
"He is exactly what we all subscribe to, want to be like."
"Your future spouse literally thinks that you're an angel incarnate."
"What you get gradually is an increase in the solidization and idealization of the notion of individual freedom."
"...there's a gap there right because nothing is ever as good as the idealization, right? So I think that that is actually what's really going on here, that I was sold a story by the craving that was not accurate, that was just short in the moment."
"They will have every characteristic you have dreamed of in your mind."
"I would give every child a mom like the mother my boys have had."
"You're seen as a perfect partner, someone they'd want to be with."
"I think maybe you love the love conquers all version of Brazil."
"You're like a wish come true, someone they'd marry or move in with."
"This person does fantasize about how they'd have this perfect life with you."
"They feel as if you are their ideal, and you're a combination of a whole lot of things that they've been looking for."
"He was more in love with the idea of me than the real me."
"We want to be worshipped by a goddess without having to be a god."
"On relationships with fans: 'The perfect version of a relationship...'"
"Regina is like my dream girl. She's so confident, she never gets embarrassed."
"What are you looking for in a man? I want someone who's like my father."
"Everybody wishes they had a Mark Matthews as a partner. Now I finally get it."
"Australia's everything that I wish the United States was."
"Your person sees you as a wish fulfillment. You're like a dream come true."
"... the perfect family you know a good looking dude, a very attractive woman, and they have cute little kids and they live in this nice ass house, nice car, the [fucking] life that everyone wants..."
"They may have trouble finding that perfect person, and even when they do, they may realize quickly that nobody can live up to their idealized standards."
"I think people fall in love with the idea, but when you get too close, that idea turns out to be something else."
"This person sees you as literally the ultimate catch, like literally the dream person."
"They see you as the person of their dreams."
"You're my dream more than even being a hero."
"Romanticize your life girly, romanticize that. If you want your morning coffee to have a heart, take your time, make it a heart."
"...this doesn't sound like a situation where he wants to control you...more like...idealizing a perfect family."
"During the first phase, the Narcissist idealizes you and then he grants you access to your idealized image through his gaze."
"Idealization is the attribution of positive, glowing, and superior traits both to self or more commonly to other people."
"They see you as their wish, their dream come true."
"Romanticizing your life is not necessarily about living in delusion."
"There's never going to be an end because there's also a better idealized version of yourself."
"They want to be perfect for you, but nobody's perfect. But they think you're perfect."
"He was all the elements of my book Heroes made into one: looks, charm, wit, determination."
"Step away from that idealization of this person."
"He was everything she had imagined. Charming, witty, and handsome."
"You're the type of person that they've always seen themselves with."
"Literally feels like a Utopia here."
"...romanticizing, we're talking about the treatment of a subject that makes it seem idealized or better than it actually is."